I don’t know about where you live but here there is what is
called ‘bus etiquette’ the rules that govern the usage of buses.
Yes I know what you’re thinking, this is rather officious
but it’s true.
So yesterday when someone breaks the rules of bus etiquette,
well it was just not right!
Let me tell you the situation and you can make your own
judgement.
Crowded bus, I have a seat next to the isle and many people
are standing up, though I am not sure I would exactly call the bus packed. The person sitting next to me indicated he
wanted to get off but as there were people standing I couldn’t just swing my
legs around so he could squish past, I needed to stand up so he could get out.
Now the rules go, when you stand up so that someone can get
out, you are then the first person to get the window seat, if you so wish. Now having the window seat can be a coup
because if you have ever had to sit next to an overweight person, tall man with
long legs that he has to spread wide (don’t ask me why but they just seem too.)
or a girl that feels her bag needs its own, very special space on the seat, a
little like Elle’s dog Bruiser in Legally Blonde, you will know what I
mean. You get less than your half of the
seat and you are kind of ‘hanging off’ the seat, delicately positioned so that
with any lurch or turn of the corner you will not fall off the seat into the
isle.
Ok back to the faux pas, so I have stood up to give the gentleman enough room
to get out and get to the door of the bus to alight. As he mauver’s past me this guy in hmm mid 20’s
takes my seat the one that was supposed to be mine next to the window. I know what the heck! And did I happen to
mention the 4 women all standing up. I
am all for equal opportunities, but don’t take my seat buster! Oh yeah the old, open legs coz I have this
huge backpack and so I’m hanging off the seat.
He did, at least have the manners to look remotely ashamed, not ashamed
enough to give me back my window seat or offer his seat to one of the ladies
standing up.
So to quote a story I saw in the paper this week,
‘Come on guys,
where are your manners!’